Young, exuberant, and enthusiastic people with little prior experience often approach the subject of having a slave and dominating others. Theoretical as well as physical considerations. Here are some of the most common blunders new male dominance students make, as we’ve learned them via trial and error.
When it comes to male BDSM, many individuals don’t have an exact idea of what they desire. That’s why our first recommendation is to ask yourself a series of questions that will help you figure out whether you truly are a Dominant. If you want to live in the style of BDSM, you need to remember that male dominance in the Theme is not just and not so much a joy, although it is also, of course, but also arduous serious work with his slave, and above all on himself.
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The following questions should be answered if you believe you are ready to assume the position of the Dominant and your girlfriend (possible slave) is not interested in it:
Is what I’m saying hurtful to her?
Is she going to think I’m a weirdo?
Is it possible that I’m going too far in my pursuit of my passions?
What if I don’t make it to the end of the line?
Is my bottom going to be physically or emotionally hurt?
Is my partner happy with the activities I’ve planned for us?
In the event that I commit an error, what will happen?
How do you discover your passion’s genuine fantasies?
Whether or whether I’ll succumb to the temptations of power is
Many more questions remain, to say the least. All of us have our own thoughts and questions. However, we want to stress that being in this kind of partnership comes with responsibilities and demands that you arm yourself with information.
Men’s supremacy is a responsibility and a knowledge.
There is an exchange of energy, power, time and money at the foundation of all relationships, whether they are romantic or platonic. It’s important to remember that dominance is both a privilege and a duty. You’ll need to put in the effort to improve yourself and your bottom, and our advice will assist.
If You Don’t Take Care Of Yourself, Who Will?
Always keep your BDSM games’ SAFETY in mind. If you’re about to do something new, or something that’s been done before but is still dangerous, think about what you can do to avoid disaster.
Become familiar with basic first aid procedures and have a supply of life-saving drugs close at hand.
Find out about your partner’s taboos, psychological and physical restrictions. Insofar as personal tastes and preferences are concerned. Do not break your lower self by force if there are any little limits that appear unimportant to you and that you can overcome. Make sure you don’t forget about the bottom.
Put an end to the activity using stop words or gestures. No matter what you do, if the bottom remains quiet, you are still responsible for its state. The word “no” should not be your last word. The word “no” is frequently a disguised yes for females in general, and lower girls in particular. As an exclamation point, “no” serves as a descriptor.
Try to get your lover to entirely rely on you in all aspects of your relationship. You should show her some respect.
It is important to remember that some subs enter a state of consciousness known as a subspace when they are engaged in combat. People lose their critical perception of reality while they are in a subspace condition. If she were in her right mind, she would not be able to do things she would now be willing to do. At the same time, you may be tempted to act hastily as a result of this mental state. Always be on the lookout for problems and keep an eye out for it.
Don’t be overly tethered to your seat. Remember that the actual bottom’s mentality is such that she wants you to determine what to do and how to be punished. Right now, you’re operating as a tool in her hands, helping her achieve her goals. This does not imply that you have to withdraw if it is tough for her; she desires these challenges and wants to conquer them via pain or fear. She is open to fresh ideas. The more she trusts you, the more you can influence her decisions.
Don’t allow a slave to make a decision for you. Everything should be up to you. However, keep in mind her tastes and wishes at all times.
When submissive women are in action, sexologists believe they surrender to their animal nature. The slave will thank you if you don’t get in the way of his doing his work. Initially, she may seem to be a passive participant in the rules that you have created for her, but she will soon realise that she enjoys them and will begin to act in accordance with them as well.
Play with confidence, frown, and clutch the handle of the whip harder if you are doubtful of yourself. Her Master should, at the very least, be able to see or sense her presence in you. Make sure she sees you as a true masculine BDSM.
Don’t be stingy when it comes to praising good work and disciplining those who don’t.
Don’t be afraid to show your lover how excited you are. After all, she makes you feel provoked by her actions. As a reaction to her and a communication that she is wanted and you are delighted with her, your enthusiasm is an indication of your affection.
The ideal relationship is one in which one party recognises oneself as subservient and the other as dominating, based on their respective psychological states. The Psychology of Slavery explains this in further detail ( pdf- format)
A work for your slave is a good idea. The slave, after all, is there to serve you.
Involve yourself in topic self-study. Read up on the subject matter. Get to know each other’s interests via themed encounters with familiar subjects.